Toilet training is one of those milestones that can feel just as big for parents as it does for toddlers. At Papilio Early Learning, we know that supporting your child through this stage requires not only patience, but also a thoughtful, nurturing approach that builds confidence and independence.
Our educators work hand-in-hand with families to make toilet training a positive, empowering experience, one that fits seamlessly into your child’s learning journey within our exclusive Lifelong Learning Curriculum.
Recognising the Signs of Readiness
Every child develops in their own time, which is why we encourage parents to look for developmental cues, not just age. Your toddler may be ready if they are:
- Staying dry for longer periods during the day
- Becoming curious about the toilet or asking to “flush”
- Expressing the need to go through words, gestures, or behaviours
- Disliking the feeling of a wet or dirty nappy
- Pulling pants up or down with little help
- Following simple instructions like “Let’s sit on the toilet!”
Educator insight:
“When toddlers begin showing interest in what happens in the bathroom, or they’re proud to let us know when they’re dry, that’s often the start of their toilet training journey. It’s about building awareness, and then turning that into confidence,” says Zahra, a toddler educator at Papilio.
What to Expect Along the Way
Like most milestones, toilet training is a process. It’s natural to experience ups, downs, and everything in between:
- False starts - Your child isn’t quite ready yet, so you pause and revisit later.
- Independence struggles - Saying “no” is part of testing boundaries.
- Regression - Accidents happen during big changes like moving house, illness, or welcoming a new sibling.
The key is consistency, encouragement, and patience. At Papilio, we remind families that progress looks different for every child, and setbacks are simply part of the learning curve.
How Papilio Supports Toilet Training
One of the advantages of a premium early learning environment is that our approach goes beyond the practical. At Papilio, toilet training becomes part of a holistic learning experience that nurtures independence, self-regulation, and social-emotional skills.
Here’s how we support children every day:
- Beautifully designed learning spaces with child-friendly bathrooms in toddler rooms
- Gentle educator guidance with reminders at natural points in the day (after meals, before rest)
- Alignment with your family routine so children experience consistency at home and in care
- Confidence-building encouragement to keep the focus positive, even after accidents
- Integration into our Lifelong Learning Curriculum, treating toileting as part of self-care and independence in our Completely Connected learning approach
Expert insight from Jola Sung, Senior Education Advisor at Affinity Education Group:
“Toileting is more than a practical skill. At Papilio, we see it as a moment to nurture children’s sense of autonomy and pride. It’s a chance to connect, encourage, and build confidence, lessons that extend far beyond the bathroom.”
Tips for Parents at Home
Creating consistency between home and Papilio makes toilet training smoother. Here are some simple tips our educators share with families:
- Start slow and stress-free - Let your child explore the potty or toilet with no pressure.
- Notice natural patterns - Keep track of when they usually need to go and use this to build routine.
- Celebrate progress - Use encouragement, praise, or a sticker chart to make it fun.
- Choose clothing that helps - Easy-up pants empower toddlers to succeed independently.
- Respond calmly to accidents - Toddlers learn best when they feel supported, not pressured.
FAQs Parents Ask About Toilet Training
It varies. Some children take a few weeks, others a few months. What matters is consistent encouragement.
Either works! Some children like the familiarity of a potty, while others are happy with a small toilet seat.
That’s okay. Our educators will follow your child’s progress and align with your family’s routine.
Spare clothes and underwear are always helpful - our educators will guide you if your child needs anything extra.
A Gentle Reminder for Parents
Toilet training can sometimes feel like pressure for parents too. Please remember: there’s no such thing as being “behind.” Children master this skill in their own time, and with encouragement and support, every step forward builds confidence.
Partnering With You Every Step of the Way
At Papilio Early Learning, we see toilet training as part of a much bigger picture - your child’s journey toward independence and self-confidence. With our expert educators and Lifelong Learning Curriculum, you’ll never have to navigate this milestone alone.
Ready to learn more about how Papilio supports milestones like toilet training? Book a tour at your local Papilio Early Learning centre today.